How to Sign "Stay"

The sign 'stay' uses both hands. Press the index, middle, and ring fingers down on both hands, leaving the thumb and pinkie fingers outstretched in the Y hand shape. Press the tips of the two thumbs together. Bring the hands down.

Examples Using "Stay" in a Sentence

1

Please stay here.

Sign 'please', then form the two 'Y' hands with your thumbs touching. Bring them down gently to sign 'stay', and finish by pointing down for 'here'.

2

I want to stay home.

Sign 'I' and 'want', then perform the downward motion with your connected 'Y' hands for 'stay', and finish with the sign for 'home'.

3

Tell the dog to stay.

After signing 'dog', use a firm, deliberate downward motion with your connected 'Y' hands to emphasize the command 'stay'.

How to Sign "Stay"
The sign 'stay' uses both hands. Press the index, middle, and ring fingers down on both hands, leaving the thumb and pinkie fingers outstretched in the Y hand shape. Press the tips of the two thumbs together. Bring the hands down.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The sign for 'stay' visually represents the concept of being planted or fixed in one place. The 'Y' handshapes, with the thumbs anchored together, create a solid, unified base. By pushing this connected structure downward, you are physically mimicking the idea of putting down roots or firmly establishing a position that will not move. It visually communicates 'stay right here' through its grounded trajectory.
Signing Tips
To make the sign for 'stay' clear and effective, focus on keeping your 'Y' handshapes firm. Ensure that your thumbs are securely pressed together before you begin the downward motion. The speed and intensity of the downward movement can convey your tone; a slow, gentle drop implies a polite request, while a sharp, quick downward motion acts as a firm command. Keep your pinkies extended outward to maintain the correct handshape throughout the entire sign.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake beginners make is letting their thumbs separate during the downward motion. Your thumbs should stay pressed together the entire time. Another frequent error is curling the pinkie fingers inward, which changes the 'Y' handshape into an 'A' handshape. Make sure both pinkies remain fully extended. Finally, avoid moving your hands forward or backward; the motion should be a straight, deliberate drop downward.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Stay" in a Sentence
1

Please stay here.

Sign 'please', then form the two 'Y' hands with your thumbs touching. Bring them down gently to sign 'stay', and finish by pointing down for 'here'.

2

I want to stay home.

Sign 'I' and 'want', then perform the downward motion with your connected 'Y' hands for 'stay', and finish with the sign for 'home'.

3

Tell the dog to stay.

After signing 'dog', use a firm, deliberate downward motion with your connected 'Y' hands to emphasize the command 'stay'.

Frequently Asked Questions
Does it matter how fast I bring my hands down?

Yes, the speed of your downward motion changes the tone of the sign. A quick, sharp drop indicates a firm command, like telling a dog to stay. A slower, gentler downward movement suggests a polite request, like asking a friend to stay.

Do my pinkies need to point in a specific direction?

While your thumbs are pressed together, your pinkies should naturally point outward in opposite directions. Just focus on maintaining a strong 'Y' handshape on both hands, and your pinkies will naturally fall into the correct outward-facing position.

Can I sign this with just one hand?

The specific variation taught here uses both hands to clearly emphasize the concept. While you might see some signers use a one-handed version in casual conversation, practicing this two-handed method with the thumbs touching ensures your signing is clear and easily understood.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!