How to Sign "Spouse"
To sign 'spouse', start by forming a flattened 'C' shape with your dominant hand and placing it near your forehead. Hold your non-dominant hand in front of your chest, palm facing up and slightly cupped. Bring your dominant hand down to firmly clasp your non-dominant hand.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This sign is deeply rooted in the traditional ASL system for family and relationship signs. It combines two distinct elements: the location for male-related signs and the action for marriage. In ASL, signs denoting males (such as father, boy, or brother) typically originate in the upper half of the face, specifically around the forehead. The second part of the sign—clasping the two hands together—is the universal ASL sign for 'marry' or 'marriage', visually representing two people joining their lives together.
Signing Tips
To sign 'spouse' clearly, focus on the starting position and the final clasp. Keep your non-dominant hand relatively still in front of your chest, with the palm facing up and slightly cupped. When you bring your dominant hand down from your forehead, ensure the movement is smooth and deliberate. The final clasping motion should be firm but gentle, representing a solid marital bond. Make sure your dominant hand wraps comfortably over your non-dominant hand, just like holding hands with someone.
Common Mistakes
A very common mistake for beginners is starting the sign at the chin instead of the forehead. In American Sign Language, the location of a sign on the face often indicates gender. Starting this sign at the chin changes the meaning entirely to 'wife'. To ensure you are signing this specific variation correctly, always double-check that your dominant hand begins at the forehead area before moving down to clasp your non-dominant hand. Additionally, avoid clapping the hands together too forcefully.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Spouse" in a Sentence
1My spouse and I are going on vacation.
Sign 'spouse' by starting at the forehead and bringing your dominant hand down to clasp your non-dominant hand, then sign 'I', 'go', and 'vacation'.
2Is your spouse coming to the party?
Point to the person to sign 'your', sign 'spouse' by clasping your hands together after starting at the forehead, and then sign 'come' and 'party' with raised eyebrows for a yes/no question.
3They met their spouse in college.
Sign 'they', 'meet', and then 'spouse' by bringing your dominant hand from your forehead down to clasp your non-dominant hand, followed by 'college'.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this the same as the sign for 'husband'?
Yes, the variation shown in the video is identical to the traditional sign for 'husband'. It starts at the forehead, which is the masculine area of the face in ASL, and moves down to clasp the hands together, symbolizing marriage.
Why does the sign start at the forehead?
In American Sign Language, signs related to males—like father, boy, or man—typically originate in the upper half of the face, such as the forehead. Conversely, female-related signs originate near the chin. This location helps distinguish between similar relationship signs.
How can I sign 'spouse' in a gender-neutral way?
To sign 'spouse' without indicating a specific gender, many signers simply use the sign for 'marry'. This is done by clasping the hands together in front of the body without starting the movement at the forehead or the chin.
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