How to Sign "Shame"

To sign 'shame,' start by placing the back of the fingers of your dominant hand against your cheek, keeping your hand slightly bent. Then, pivot and twist your hand forward and outward away from your face, ending with your palm facing forward or slightly upward.

Examples Using "Shame" in a Sentence

1

It's a shame you couldn't come to the party.

Sign 'shame' with a slightly disappointed facial expression and a gentle outward twist to convey the feeling of a missed opportunity or mild regret.

2

He felt a lot of shame after making that mistake.

Use the sign for 'shame' while lowering your head slightly and looking down to emphasize the deep, internal feeling of guilt or embarrassment.

3

Shame on you!

Sign 'shame' with a stern facial expression and a sharper, more deliberate outward twist of the hand directed toward the person to show reprimand.

How to Sign "Shame"
To sign 'shame,' start by placing the back of the fingers of your dominant hand against your cheek, keeping your hand slightly bent. Then, pivot and twist your hand forward and outward away from your face, ending with your palm facing forward or slightly upward.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The sign for 'shame' is highly iconic and relates to the physical reaction of feeling embarrassed or ashamed. The hand resting on the cheek and turning outward mimics the idea of trying to hide one's face or drawing attention to the sensation of a blushing cheek.
Signing Tips
Focus on the twisting motion starting from your cheek. The movement should be fluid, pivoting outward rather than sliding down. Your facial expression is crucial here—let your face show the emotion of embarrassment, guilt, or disappointment to match the context.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is brushing the hand down the cheek instead of twisting it outward. Remember that the back of the fingers acts as a pivot point on the cheek before the hand turns forward. Also, avoid keeping a neutral face, as 'shame' is a highly expressive concept.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Shame" in a Sentence
1

It's a shame you couldn't come to the party.

Sign 'shame' with a slightly disappointed facial expression and a gentle outward twist to convey the feeling of a missed opportunity or mild regret.

2

He felt a lot of shame after making that mistake.

Use the sign for 'shame' while lowering your head slightly and looking down to emphasize the deep, internal feeling of guilt or embarrassment.

3

Shame on you!

Sign 'shame' with a stern facial expression and a sharper, more deliberate outward twist of the hand directed toward the person to show reprimand.

Frequently Asked Questions
Can I use this sign to say 'shame on you'?

Yes, you can use this sign to mean 'shame on you' by directing the outward twist of your hand slightly toward the person you are addressing, accompanied by a stern or scolding facial expression.

Is this the same sign as 'shy'?

They are similar but distinct. 'Shy' involves a bent hand brushing backward along the cheek toward the ear, whereas 'shame' involves the back of the fingers resting on the cheek and twisting forward and outward.

Do I need to touch my cheek for this sign?

Yes, the sign starts with the back of your fingers making light contact with your cheek before twisting outward. This anchors the sign to the face, which visually represents the feeling of blushing or embarrassment.

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