How to Sign "Respect"
To sign 'respect,' form both hands into 'R' handshapes by crossing your index and middle fingers. Place your dominant hand near your forehead and your non-dominant hand slightly lower in front of your chest, with your palms facing toward you. Move both hands forward and slightly upward in a smooth, deliberate arc.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This sign is an initialized version of the sign for 'honor.' It incorporates the 'R' handshape to represent the first letter of the English word 'respect.' The motion of moving the hands forward and upward visually represents looking up to someone, offering them your esteem, or elevating them to a position of high regard.
Signing Tips
Focus on making a smooth, upward arc with your hands. The upward motion is key because it visually represents holding someone or something in high regard. Remember to keep your 'R' handshapes crisp, with the fingers clearly crossed, to avoid confusing it with similar signs. Additionally, let your facial expression reflect sincerity.
Common Mistakes
A frequent mistake is using 'H' handshapes (index and middle fingers extended and together) instead of 'R' handshapes. This changes the word to 'honor.' Another common error is moving the hands straight forward without the upward arc, which loses the visual meaning of elevating the person you respect. Make sure your dominant hand starts high near your forehead.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Respect" in a Sentence
1I have a lot of respect for my parents.
Sign 'my', 'parents', and then sign 'respect' moving your hands forward and slightly upward to show your respect directed toward them.
2Please respect my privacy.
Sign 'please', 'privacy', and then sign 'respect' moving from the other person's space inward toward yourself to indicate them respecting you.
3We need to respect the rules.
Sign 'rules', then sign 'respect' moving forward. The forward and upward motion shows your adherence and high regard for the established rules.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I sign 'respect' with just one hand?
While you might see it signed casually with one hand in rapid, informal conversation, it is properly a two-handed sign. Using both hands conveys the full weight, sincerity, and importance of the word.
How do I say 'respect me'?
'Respect' is a directional sign, meaning the movement shows who is doing the action. To say 'respect me,' you start the sign away from your body and move the 'R' hands inward toward yourself.
Is there a difference between 'respect' and 'honor' in ASL?
Yes, they are very similar but use different handshapes. 'Respect' uses 'R' hands (crossed fingers), while 'honor' uses 'H' hands (index and middle fingers straight and together). The movement and location are identical.
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