How to Sign "Pity"

To sign 'pity,' start by forming an open '5' handshape with your dominant hand, then bend your middle finger forward. Hold your hand in front of your chest with your palm facing outward. Move your hand forward in a gentle, repetitive stroking motion, as if you are sending your feelings of sympathy toward someone.

Examples Using "Pity" in a Sentence

1

I feel pity for the stray dog.

Sign 'pity' by directing the forward stroking motion slightly downward, as if you are aiming your sympathy toward a small dog on the ground.

2

It's a pity you can't come to the party.

Use the sign for 'pity' paired with a disappointed facial expression to show that you feel genuinely bad about the unfortunate situation.

3

She looked at him with pity.

Direct the sign for 'pity' toward the specific location in your signing space where you previously established the person being looked at.

How to Sign "Pity"
To sign 'pity,' start by forming an open '5' handshape with your dominant hand, then bend your middle finger forward. Hold your hand in front of your chest with your palm facing outward. Move your hand forward in a gentle, repetitive stroking motion, as if you are sending your feelings of sympathy toward someone.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
In American Sign Language, the middle finger is frequently associated with emotions and internal feelings, as seen in signs like 'feel' and 'sick.' For 'pity,' this 'feeling' finger is directed outward. The gentle, forward stroking motion mimics the act of petting or comforting someone, visually representing the transfer of compassion.
Signing Tips
When signing 'pity,' your facial expression is just as important as your hand movements. Make sure your face conveys genuine sympathy, sadness, or concern. Remember that the middle finger is often used in ASL to represent feelings, so directing it outward visually shows your emotions extending toward someone else.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is pointing the palm inward toward yourself instead of outward. If your palm faces your chest, it looks like the sign for 'feel.' To sign 'pity,' your palm must face outward to show the feeling is directed away from you. Another mistake is forgetting to use a sympathetic facial expression.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Pity" in a Sentence
1

I feel pity for the stray dog.

Sign 'pity' by directing the forward stroking motion slightly downward, as if you are aiming your sympathy toward a small dog on the ground.

2

It's a pity you can't come to the party.

Use the sign for 'pity' paired with a disappointed facial expression to show that you feel genuinely bad about the unfortunate situation.

3

She looked at him with pity.

Direct the sign for 'pity' toward the specific location in your signing space where you previously established the person being looked at.

Frequently Asked Questions
Can I use two hands to sign 'pity'?

Yes! While this video demonstrates the one-handed version, 'pity' is very often signed using both hands simultaneously. Using two hands can emphasize the depth of your sympathy or show that the feeling is especially strong.

What is the difference between 'pity' and 'sympathy' in ASL?

In ASL, the signs for 'pity,' 'sympathy,' and 'mercy' are typically the exact same sign. The specific English translation is understood from the context of your conversation and the intensity of your facial expression.

Why do I need to bend my middle finger?

Bending the middle finger creates what is known as the 'open 8' handshape. In ASL, the middle finger is heavily associated with emotions. Bending it highlights that the sign is related to an internal feeling rather than a physical action.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!