How to Sign "Obey"

Start with both hands in front of your face or upper chest, forming flat 'O' shapes where your fingertips touch your thumbs, with your palms facing toward you. Smoothly move both hands forward and slightly down. As you move them, open your hands completely so they end up flat with your palms facing up and slightly forward.

Examples Using "Obey" in a Sentence

1

I always obey the law.

Sign 'I', then 'always', followed by the sign for 'obey' by opening your hands forward, and finish with 'law'. The forward motion shows your willingness to follow the rules.

2

The dog obeys me.

Point to the dog, then sign 'obey'. Because 'obey' is a directional verb, you can reverse the motion by starting away from your body and pulling your hands inward to show the dog is obeying you.

3

You need to obey your parents.

Sign 'you', 'need', and then 'obey' by moving your hands forward and opening them. Finish by signing 'parents' to complete the instruction.

How to Sign "Obey"
Start with both hands in front of your face or upper chest, forming flat 'O' shapes where your fingertips touch your thumbs, with your palms facing toward you. Smoothly move both hands forward and slightly down. As you move them, open your hands completely so they end up flat with your palms facing up and slightly forward.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The visual logic of 'obey' is deeply symbolic. The sign begins with closed hands near the head or chest, representing a thought, rule, or command. As the hands move forward and open up with the palms facing the sky, it visually depicts the act of opening oneself up to an instruction, showing submission, acceptance, and a willingness to follow the given guidance.
Signing Tips
When signing 'obey,' focus on the smooth transition from the closed flat 'O' handshape to the open flat hands. The movement should feel deliberate and respectful, reflecting the concept of compliance. Make sure your palms end up facing upward and slightly forward, as if you are physically accepting an instruction and offering your cooperation.
Common Mistakes
A frequent mistake beginners make is keeping their hands closed throughout the entire movement or ending with their palms facing downward. Remember that the key to this sign is the opening of the hands. Your palms must face upward at the end of the sign to properly convey the idea of submission and willingness to follow rules.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Obey" in a Sentence
1

I always obey the law.

Sign 'I', then 'always', followed by the sign for 'obey' by opening your hands forward, and finish with 'law'. The forward motion shows your willingness to follow the rules.

2

The dog obeys me.

Point to the dog, then sign 'obey'. Because 'obey' is a directional verb, you can reverse the motion by starting away from your body and pulling your hands inward to show the dog is obeying you.

3

You need to obey your parents.

Sign 'you', 'need', and then 'obey' by moving your hands forward and opening them. Finish by signing 'parents' to complete the instruction.

Frequently Asked Questions
Is 'obey' a directional sign?

Yes! The standard sign moves forward to mean 'I obey you' or 'obey them.' If you want to say 'obey me,' you reverse the motion: start with open hands away from your body and pull them inward, closing them into flat 'O' shapes near your chest.

Can I sign 'obey' with just one hand?

While you might occasionally see a one-handed version in very casual, fast-paced signing, the standard and most clearly understood dictionary form uses both hands. Beginners should stick to the two-handed version to ensure they are easily understood.

How is 'obey' different from the sign for 'give'?

Both signs involve moving the hands forward and opening them, but they start in different locations. 'Obey' starts higher up, near the face or upper chest, to emphasize the mental acceptance of a rule. 'Give' typically starts lower, near the mid-chest or stomach.

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