How to Sign "Marry"
To sign "marry", start by holding your non-dominant hand in front of your chest, palm facing up and slightly cupped. Bring your dominant hand down from slightly above, palm facing down, and clasp your hands together. The motion looks just like two people holding hands.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The sign for "marry" is highly iconic, meaning its visual representation directly ties to its real-world meaning. The action of the two hands coming together and clasping perfectly mimics the traditional act of holding hands or joining hands during a wedding ceremony. This visual metaphor beautifully symbolizes unity, partnership, and the bonding of two lives. Because it is such a natural and universally understood gesture for coming together, it is very easy for beginner signers to remember and execute.
Signing Tips
When signing "marry", make sure the clasping motion is firm but gentle, symbolizing a union between two people. Keep your hands relaxed and slightly cupped rather than interlocking your fingers tightly. It is important to let your dominant hand do the moving while your non-dominant hand acts as the base. As always, your facial expression should match the context of the conversation, whether it is a happy wedding announcement, a casual statement, or an inquisitive question about someone's relationship status.
Common Mistakes
A very common mistake beginners make is interlocking their fingers tightly instead of simply clasping the hands together. Remember to keep your fingers closed and relaxed. Another frequent error is clapping the hands together too forcefully or loudly. The movement should be a smooth, deliberate, and gentle clasping motion rather than a sharp clap. Finally, be sure your dominant hand is the one moving down onto the stationary non-dominant hand, rather than moving both hands equally.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Marry" in a Sentence
1Are you married?
To ask this, point to the person to sign "you", then perform the sign for "marry". Since this is a yes/no question, remember to raise your eyebrows and lean forward slightly while signing to show you are asking a question.
2They are getting married tomorrow.
Start by pointing to the people to sign "they", then sign "tomorrow" by moving your thumb forward from your cheek. Finally, sign "marry". Keep your facial expression bright and joyful to match the happy context of a wedding announcement.
3I want to marry you.
Point to yourself to sign "I", then sign "want" by pulling both clawed hands toward yourself. Next, sign "marry", and finish by pointing to the person you are speaking to. Maintain warm, sincere eye contact throughout the sentence.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does it matter which hand is on top?
Yes, it generally does. In ASL, your dominant hand should be the one that moves and rests on top. If you are right-handed, your left hand stays stationary with the palm facing up, and your right hand moves down to clasp it.
Is this sign used for the words 'husband' or 'wife'?
No, 'husband' and 'wife' have their own distinct signs that start at the forehead or chin, respectively. However, both of those signs finish by bringing the hands together in the exact same clasping motion used for the sign 'marry'.
Should I interlock my fingers when I clasp my hands?
No, you should not interlock or lace your fingers together. Keep the fingers on both hands closed and slightly cupped. You are simply resting your dominant hand over your non-dominant hand in a gentle, relaxed clasping motion.
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