How to Sign "Make Love"

To sign *make love*, start by forming both hands into 'S' handshapes, which look like closed fists. Hold your hands in front of your chest with your palms facing inward toward each other. Bring your hands together so that the knuckles of both fists meet, and gently rub or twist them against each other a couple of times to complete the sign.

Examples Using "Make Love" in a Sentence

1

We made love last night.

Start by establishing the time with the sign for 'last night', point to yourself and your partner to indicate 'we', and then perform the sign for 'make love'.

2

Do you want to make love?

Point to your partner, sign 'want', and then sign 'make love'. Remember to raise your eyebrows and lean forward slightly to indicate a yes/no question.

3

They make love often.

Point to the couple to establish 'they', sign 'make love', and finish with the sign for 'often' to complete the sentence.

How to Sign "Make Love"
To sign *make love*, start by forming both hands into 'S' handshapes, which look like closed fists. Hold your hands in front of your chest with your palms facing inward toward each other. Bring your hands together so that the knuckles of both fists meet, and gently rub or twist them against each other a couple of times to complete the sign.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The sign for *make love* is highly iconic and relies on visual representation. The two closed fists symbolize two individuals or bodies. By bringing the hands together and gently rubbing or twisting them against one another, the sign visually depicts two people coming together and interacting in a close, intimate, and physical way.
Signing Tips
When signing *make love*, it is important to keep the movement gentle and fluid to accurately convey the intimate nature of the concept. Your facial expressions are just as important as your hand movements in ASL. Using a soft, affectionate expression helps clarify the romantic context of 'making love,' distinguishing it from more clinical or neutral terms. Ensure your shoulders are relaxed to keep the sign looking natural.
Common Mistakes
A frequent mistake beginners make is using a harsh, rigid, or overly aggressive rubbing motion, which can inadvertently change the tone of the sign. Additionally, be careful with your palm orientation; make sure to keep your palms facing inward toward each other. If your palms face outward or upward, the sign will lose its intended visual meaning and may confuse the person you are signing with.
Regional Variations
While the closed fist variation is very common, some signers prefer to use the 'ILY' (I Love You) handshape on both hands. In this variation, the hands are brought together and rubbed in a slight circular motion to specifically emphasize the emotional 'love' aspect of the phrase.
Examples Using "Make Love" in a Sentence
1

We made love last night.

Start by establishing the time with the sign for 'last night', point to yourself and your partner to indicate 'we', and then perform the sign for 'make love'.

2

Do you want to make love?

Point to your partner, sign 'want', and then sign 'make love'. Remember to raise your eyebrows and lean forward slightly to indicate a yes/no question.

3

They make love often.

Point to the couple to establish 'they', sign 'make love', and finish with the sign for 'often' to complete the sentence.

Frequently Asked Questions
Is this the same as the sign for 'sex'?

This sign is often used interchangeably for both 'make love' and 'sex.' However, there is another common sign specifically for 'sex' that involves touching an 'X' handshape to the upper cheek, then moving it down to touch the lower cheek. The context and your facial expressions will help clarify your exact meaning.

Do I need to use a specific facial expression?

Yes! In ASL, non-manual markers like facial expressions carry a lot of meaning. Using a soft, intimate expression helps convey the romantic context of 'making love,' whereas a neutral expression might feel too clinical.

Can I use 'A' handshapes instead of 'S' handshapes?

Yes, some signers use 'A' handshapes (where the thumb rests on the side of the index finger) instead of 'S' handshapes (where the thumb wraps across the fingers). Both variations are widely understood and accepted in the Deaf community.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!