How to Sign "Lover"

To sign 'lover', start by forming the 'ILY' (I Love You) handshape with both hands by extending your thumbs, index fingers, and pinky fingers while curling your middle and ring fingers. Bring your hands together in front of your chest so that the knuckles of your curled fingers touch. Finally, change both hands to flat handshapes with your palms facing each other and move them straight down to add the 'person' marker.

Examples Using "Lover" in a Sentence

1

My lover is taking me out to dinner.

To express this, you would use the sign for 'lover' followed by the signs for 'dinner' and 'go out'.

2

They are lovers.

Point to the couple, then use the 'lover' sign to indicate their romantic relationship.

3

I bought a gift for my lover.

Sign 'I', 'buy', 'gift', and finish with the sign for 'lover' to clearly show who the gift is intended for.

How to Sign "Lover"
To sign 'lover', start by forming the 'ILY' (I Love You) handshape with both hands by extending your thumbs, index fingers, and pinky fingers while curling your middle and ring fingers. Bring your hands together in front of your chest so that the knuckles of your curled fingers touch. Finally, change both hands to flat handshapes with your palms facing each other and move them straight down to add the 'person' marker.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This sign beautifully combines the iconic 'ILY' (I Love You) handshape—which blends the ASL letters I, L, and Y—with the standard ASL 'person' marker. The person marker acts like the '-er' suffix in English, literally translating the sign to 'a person of I-love-you'.
Signing Tips
Make sure your 'ILY' handshapes are clearly formed before bringing your knuckles together. Keep the transition smooth when changing to the flat handshapes for the downward motion of the person marker.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is forgetting the 'person' marker at the end. Without the downward motion of the flat hands, the sign simply represents the concept of a loving couple, rather than the specific noun 'lover'.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Lover" in a Sentence
1

My lover is taking me out to dinner.

To express this, you would use the sign for 'lover' followed by the signs for 'dinner' and 'go out'.

2

They are lovers.

Point to the couple, then use the 'lover' sign to indicate their romantic relationship.

3

I bought a gift for my lover.

Sign 'I', 'buy', 'gift', and finish with the sign for 'lover' to clearly show who the gift is intended for.

Frequently Asked Questions
Can I use this sign for someone who loves a hobby, like a 'book lover'?

No, this specific sign is used exclusively for a romantic partner. For a 'book lover,' you would typically sign 'book' and then 'love' or 'enjoy,' rather than using this romantic sign.

What is the difference between 'lover' and 'sweetheart'?

'Sweetheart' is often signed with both hands in 'A' handshapes (thumbs up) tapping together at the knuckles over the heart. This variation of 'lover' uses the 'ILY' handshape before adding the person marker.

Why do we add the downward motion at the end?

The downward motion with flat hands is the 'person marker' in ASL. It changes a verb or concept into a noun representing a person, similar to adding the suffix '-er' to a word in English.

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