How to Sign "Lets Be Friends"
To sign 'let's be friends,' start by signing 'we.' Point your dominant index finger at the dominant side of your chest, then move it in a small arc to touch the non-dominant side. Next, sign 'friends' by extending both index fingers. Hook your dominant index finger over your non-dominant index finger, then release, flip your hands, and hook them together again with the non-dominant finger on top.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The sign for 'friends' visually represents two people coming together and forming a strong, interlocking bond. By hooking the index fingers in both directions, the sign beautifully illustrates a mutual, two-way connection and the equal support shared between friends.
Signing Tips
Facial expressions are key for this phrase! Make sure to have a warm, inviting smile and open body language when signing 'let's be friends.' When signing 'friends,' keep your movements crisp but gentle to convey a positive, welcoming tone. The interlocking fingers should look natural, not forceful.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is forgetting to flip the index fingers when signing 'friends.' If you only hook them once without reversing, it looks incomplete or can be confused with other signs. Make sure to hook them, release, and hook them again the opposite way to complete the sign properly.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Lets Be Friends" in a Sentence
1I like you, let's be friends.
Sign 'I LIKE YOU' by pointing to yourself, pulling an '8' handshape from your chest, and pointing to the other person. Follow this with 'LET'S BE FRIENDS' to express a warm desire to start a new friendship.
2We should stop arguing and let's be friends.
Sign 'STOP ARGUE' by bringing a flat hand down sharply onto your other palm, and then smoothly transition into 'LET'S BE FRIENDS' to suggest making peace and moving forward together.
3Are you new here? Let's be friends!
Ask 'YOU NEW HERE?' by pointing to the person, signing 'NEW', and pointing down, making sure to raise your eyebrows for the question. Then, sign 'LET'S BE FRIENDS' with a warm, welcoming smile.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to sign the words 'let's' or 'be'?
No, ASL does not typically use English 'to be' verbs like 'am,' 'is,' 'are,' or 'be.' Signing 'WE FRIENDS' with the right inviting context naturally translates to the English phrase 'let's be friends' without needing a separate sign for 'let's' or 'be'.
Can I just sign 'friends' instead of 'we friends'?
Yes! Depending on the context and your body language, simply signing 'friends' with an inviting facial expression, a slight nod, and an open posture can easily convey the meaning of 'let's be friends' without needing to sign 'we' first.
How do I make it sound like a question?
If you want to ask 'Do you want to be friends?' instead of making a statement, sign 'WE FRIENDS' while raising your eyebrows and tilting your head slightly forward. Hold the final 'friends' sign a little longer to indicate you are waiting for their response.
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