How to Sign "Intercourse"

To sign 'intercourse', form an 'X' handshape with your dominant hand. Tap the side of your upper cheek near your eye with the knuckle of your curled index finger. Then, move your hand down slightly and tap the side of your lower cheek near your jaw. The movement consists of two distinct taps along the side of your face.

Examples Using "Intercourse" in a Sentence

1

The clinic provides information about safe intercourse.

Sign 'safe' followed by 'intercourse' to convey the concept of practicing safe sex. Ensure your facial expression matches the informative, serious nature of the sentence.

2

They discussed the emotional aspects of intercourse.

Use the sign for 'discuss', then 'emotion', and finish with 'intercourse'. When signing about emotional topics, your body language should reflect a thoughtful tone.

3

The health class covered the topic of intercourse.

Sign 'health', 'class', 'topic', and then 'intercourse' to explain the subject matter. This is a straightforward, informative sentence, so keep your signing clear and neutral.

How to Sign "Intercourse"
To sign 'intercourse', form an 'X' handshape with your dominant hand. Tap the side of your upper cheek near your eye with the knuckle of your curled index finger. Then, move your hand down slightly and tap the side of your lower cheek near your jaw. The movement consists of two distinct taps along the side of your face.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This sign uses the 'X' handshape as an initialized reference to the letter 'X' in the word 'sex', which is the most common synonym for intercourse. The placement on the cheek helps distinguish it from other signs, making it a polite and widely recognized way to convey the concept.
Signing Tips
Keep your wrist relaxed but maintain a firm 'X' handshape with your other fingers tucked away. Ensure the two taps are distinct, starting higher on the cheekbone and ending lower near the jawline. A light touch is all you need; avoid pressing too hard against your face.
Common Mistakes
A frequent error is using a straight index finger instead of a curled 'X' handshape, which might look like you are simply pointing to your face. Another mistake is twisting the handshape on the cheek, which can accidentally form the sign for 'apple' instead of 'intercourse'.
Regional Variations
Some signers may use a single tap in the middle of the cheek during fast conversation. Additionally, there are more explicit, non-initialized signs using 'V' handshapes coming together to describe the physical act of intercourse, but the 'X' on the cheek is the most universally accepted general term.
Examples Using "Intercourse" in a Sentence
1

The clinic provides information about safe intercourse.

Sign 'safe' followed by 'intercourse' to convey the concept of practicing safe sex. Ensure your facial expression matches the informative, serious nature of the sentence.

2

They discussed the emotional aspects of intercourse.

Use the sign for 'discuss', then 'emotion', and finish with 'intercourse'. When signing about emotional topics, your body language should reflect a thoughtful tone.

3

The health class covered the topic of intercourse.

Sign 'health', 'class', 'topic', and then 'intercourse' to explain the subject matter. This is a straightforward, informative sentence, so keep your signing clear and neutral.

Frequently Asked Questions
Is there a difference between the signs for 'intercourse' and 'sex'?

In most contexts, the sign is exactly the same. The 'X' handshape tapping the cheek is the standard sign for 'sex', which is used interchangeably for 'intercourse'. While there are more explicit signs for the physical act, this is the most common and polite general term.

Does it matter which side of my face I tap?

You should tap the side of the face that corresponds to your dominant hand. If you are right-handed, tap your right cheek, and if you are left-handed, tap your left cheek. Crossing over to the opposite side of your face is awkward and incorrect in ASL.

Can I just tap once instead of twice?

While some signers might use a single tap in fast, casual conversation, the standard and clearest way to sign it is with two distinct taps—one higher on the cheek and one lower. As a beginner, it is best to stick to the two-tap method for clarity.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!