How to Sign "I Want You"
To sign 'I want you,' you will combine three distinct signs in sequence. First, point to the center of your chest with your index finger for 'I'. Next, for 'WANT', hold both hands out in front of you with palms facing up and fingers slightly curved, then pull both hands toward your body while curling your fingers inward, as if pulling something toward yourself. Finally, point directly forward at the person you are talking to with your index finger for 'YOU'.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This phrase combines three highly intuitive and visually logical signs. 'I' and 'YOU' rely on natural pointing gestures (indexing), which are universally understood ways to indicate oneself and others. The sign for 'WANT' is highly iconic; the motion of reaching out with open hands and pulling them back toward your body visually represents the act of grasping something you desire and bringing it close to yourself.
Signing Tips
When signing 'I want you,' focus on making the transition between the three signs smooth and natural rather than pausing between each word. The sign for 'WANT' is very expressive; the pulling motion should look like you are physically drawing something toward yourself. Make sure to maintain eye contact, especially when pointing for 'YOU', as this establishes a clear, direct connection with the person you are addressing.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is dropping the hands completely between each word, which makes the phrase look robotic and disconnected. Instead, let the signs flow smoothly into one another. Another frequent error is performing the 'WANT' sign with palms facing down or pulling too aggressively. Keep your palms facing up and use a gentle, controlled pulling motion toward your torso.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "I Want You" in a Sentence
1I want you to come with me.
Sign 'I want you' as described, then follow up with the signs for 'come' and 'with me'. Ensure your facial expressions match the sincerity or urgency of your request.
2I want you on my team.
After signing 'I want you', you can point to yourself and sign 'team'. The direct pointing in 'I' and 'you' makes it perfectly clear who is involved in the statement.
3Do I want you to help?
When asking this as a question, sign 'I want you' while raising your eyebrows and tilting your head slightly forward to indicate a yes/no question to your conversation partner.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to sign 'I' and 'you' every time?
In ASL, pronouns can sometimes be dropped if the context is already clear. However, for a direct and specific statement like 'I want you,' signing all three words adds necessary emphasis. Because 'want' is not a directional verb, the pronouns help clarify exactly who wants whom.
Can I sign 'WANT' with just one hand?
'WANT' is standardly a two-handed sign. While you might occasionally see native signers use one hand in very casual, rapid conversation (especially if their other hand is occupied), beginners should always practice using both hands to ensure clarity and proper grammatical form.
How do I show how badly I want something?
You can modify the intensity of the sign 'WANT' by changing your facial expression and the speed or tension of the motion. Pulling your hands in more sharply while showing a strong, determined facial expression conveys a much stronger desire than a gentle, relaxed pull.
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