How to Sign "I Really Love You"
Start by pointing to your chest with your thumb (using an 'A' handshape) to indicate 'I'. Next, cross your arms over your chest with both hands in closed fists to sign 'love'. To emphasize the word 'really', squeeze your arms tightly against your chest and ensure your facial expression shows sincere, intense emotion. The 'you' is implied by your eye contact.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The ASL sign for 'love' is beautifully iconic and easy to remember because it mimics the universal gesture of giving someone a warm, affectionate hug. By crossing your arms over your heart, you visually represent holding someone close to you. When you want to express that you 'really' love someone, you naturally squeeze tighter, just as you would in a real, passionate embrace. This physical amplification perfectly demonstrates how ASL uses movement intensity to modify the meaning of a word.
Signing Tips
To effectively communicate 'I really love you,' the secret lies in your non-manual signals and the intensity of your movement. When you cross your arms to sign 'love,' give yourself a noticeable, firm squeeze. This physical emphasis is what translates to 'really' or 'deeply' in English. Additionally, your facial expression is crucial. Make sure your face reflects genuine, strong affection. Maintaining soft, sincere eye contact with the person you are signing to will complete the message perfectly.
Common Mistakes
A frequent mistake beginners make is signing this phrase with a relaxed posture and a neutral facial expression. If you simply cross your arms lightly without a firm squeeze, the sign translates to a standard 'I love you' rather than 'I really love you.' Another common error is forgetting to maintain eye contact. Since this variation doesn't explicitly point to the other person with a 'you' sign, your eye contact and body orientation are essential for directing the affection toward them.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "I Really Love You" in a Sentence
1I really love you so much!
Sign this phrase when expressing deep affection to a partner or family member. Make sure to squeeze your arms tightly and show genuine emotion on your face to convey the depth of your feelings.
2Thank you for everything, I really love you.
Use this sign at the end of a heartfelt message. Emphasizing the 'love' sign with a firm squeeze shows your sincere appreciation and strong emotional connection to the person.
3I really love you, goodnight.
This is a wonderful way to say goodnight to a child or loved one. Use a gentle but firm squeeze on the 'love' sign while maintaining warm, loving eye contact before they go to sleep.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to sign 'you' at the end of this phrase?
In this specific variation, the word 'you' is implied by the context and your direct eye contact with the person you are addressing. Because you are looking right at them, you don't need to add a separate pointing sign for 'you'.
Can I use the single-handed 'ILY' sign instead?
Yes, the single-handed 'ILY' sign (thumb, index, and pinky extended) is very popular. However, crossing your arms over your chest and squeezing tightly is much more effective for emphasizing the deep, emotional 'really love' aspect shown here.
Why do I point with my thumb instead of my index finger for 'I'?
Pointing to your chest with your thumb (using an 'A' handshape) is a very common and completely acceptable variation for 'I' or 'me' in ASL. It is often used in casual, fluid signing and feels natural before transitioning into the 'love' sign.
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