How to Sign "I Hate You"

This is a two part sign. The first sign "hate" you will take both your hands in the number "8" handshape with palms facing out. Flick both finger out while making a face of disgust. The second part is "you" for this sign you will take your dominant hand in the "d" handshape and point it at who you are referencing

Examples Using "I Hate You" in a Sentence

1

I hate you for eating my last slice of pizza!

Sign 'hate' by flicking your middle fingers outward from your thumbs with a strong disgusted facial expression, then point directly at the person with your index finger.

2

When we argue, sometimes I feel like I hate you.

After signing the context of arguing, use the two-part 'hate you' sign, making sure your facial expression matches the intensity of the emotion before pointing.

3

Oh, I hate you so much right now!

Even if used playfully or sarcastically, the mechanics of the '8' handshape flicking out and pointing remain the same, but your facial expression should reflect the exaggerated tone.

How to Sign "I Hate You"
This is a two part sign. The first sign "hate" you will take both your hands in the number "8" handshape with palms facing out. Flick both finger out while making a face of disgust. The second part is "you" for this sign you will take your dominant hand in the "d" handshape and point it at who you are referencing
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The sign for 'hate' is highly iconic, representing the physical reaction of flicking something gross or repulsive away from yourself. The sharp outward flick mimics discarding something disgusting, while the point establishes exactly who the feeling is directed toward.
Signing Tips
Focus heavily on your non-manual markers, specifically your facial expressions. The sign for 'hate' relies on a disgusted or angry face to convey the correct meaning. When flicking your middle fingers from your thumbs, make the movement sharp and deliberate to show strong emotion, then smoothly transition into pointing at the person.
Common Mistakes
A frequent mistake is forgetting the facial expression. Without a face of disgust, the sign loses its emotional impact. Additionally, beginners sometimes flick all their fingers instead of just the middle fingers from the '8' handshape, or they forget to point clearly for the 'you' portion.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "I Hate You" in a Sentence
1

I hate you for eating my last slice of pizza!

Sign 'hate' by flicking your middle fingers outward from your thumbs with a strong disgusted facial expression, then point directly at the person with your index finger.

2

When we argue, sometimes I feel like I hate you.

After signing the context of arguing, use the two-part 'hate you' sign, making sure your facial expression matches the intensity of the emotion before pointing.

3

Oh, I hate you so much right now!

Even if used playfully or sarcastically, the mechanics of the '8' handshape flicking out and pointing remain the same, but your facial expression should reflect the exaggerated tone.

Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to sign 'I' before signing 'hate you'?

In ASL, the pronoun 'I' is often implied by the direction and context of the sign. Because you are the one signing and expressing the emotion, you can simply sign 'hate' and then point to 'you' without needing a separate sign for 'I'.

Can I use this sign to say I hate a specific object or food?

Yes! You can use the first part of this sign to express that you hate a food or object. You would simply drop the second part (pointing at 'you') and point to or sign the object you dislike instead.

What exactly is the '8' handshape?

The '8' handshape is made by extending your fingers and touching the tip of your middle finger to the tip of your thumb. For the 'hate' sign, you start in this position and sharply flick the middle fingers outward.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!