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How to Sign "Girlfriend"

A composite sign. "Girl" is signed with an "A" handshape that gently brushes the jaw of the respective side of the face one or two times with the palm facing in. "Friend" is the "one" handshape is used on both hands with palms oriented toward each other. Bring the extended index fingers toward each other to meet at the middle knuckle at right angles to each other and slightly bend the index fingers. Unhook the index fingers and switch the orientation of each palm so that the one facing downward is up and vice-versa, now repeat the hooking together of the index fingers.

Examples Using "Girlfriend" in a Sentence

1

I want you to meet my girlfriend.

Sign "I", "want", "introduce", "my", and then smoothly transition from the "A" handshape on your jaw for "girl" into the interlocking index fingers for "friend".

2

Do you have a girlfriend?

Sign "you", "have", and "girlfriend". Remember to raise your eyebrows and lean forward slightly at the end of the sentence to indicate a yes/no question.

3

My girlfriend loves coffee.

Sign "my", "girlfriend", "coffee", and "love". Ensure the "friend" portion of the sign is clear by distinctly hooking the index fingers twice, alternating which hand is on top.

How to Sign "Girlfriend"
A composite sign. "Girl" is signed with an "A" handshape that gently brushes the jaw of the respective side of the face one or two times with the palm facing in. "Friend" is the "one" handshape is used on both hands with palms oriented toward each other. Bring the extended index fingers toward each other to meet at the middle knuckle at right angles to each other and slightly bend the index fingers. Unhook the index fingers and switch the orientation of each palm so that the one facing downward is up and vice-versa, now repeat the hooking together of the index fingers.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This is a classic compound sign combining "girl" and "friend." The sign for "girl" originates from the historical wearing of bonnets, tracing the string tied under the chin. The sign for "friend" is highly iconic, using the index fingers to represent two individuals. By interlocking them, flipping, and interlocking again, it visually depicts a strong, intertwined bond.
Signing Tips
To make this compound sign flow naturally, practice the transition between the two words. After brushing your jaw with the "A" handshape for "girl," immediately drop that hand down to meet your non-dominant hand. Form the "one" handshapes as you bring your hands together, allowing the interlocking motion of "friend" to become a fluid continuation.
Common Mistakes
A frequent mistake is making the "friend" portion too rigid or hooking the fingers too tightly, which slows down the sign. Another common error is forgetting to switch the top and bottom hands for the second hook. Beginners also sometimes brush the "girl" portion too far down the neck; keep the "A" handshape gently on the jawline.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Girlfriend" in a Sentence
1

I want you to meet my girlfriend.

Sign "I", "want", "introduce", "my", and then smoothly transition from the "A" handshape on your jaw for "girl" into the interlocking index fingers for "friend".

2

Do you have a girlfriend?

Sign "you", "have", and "girlfriend". Remember to raise your eyebrows and lean forward slightly at the end of the sentence to indicate a yes/no question.

3

My girlfriend loves coffee.

Sign "my", "girlfriend", "coffee", and "love". Ensure the "friend" portion of the sign is clear by distinctly hooking the index fingers twice, alternating which hand is on top.

Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to do the double hook for 'friend' every time?

While native signers might shorten the 'friend' portion to a single hook during rapid, casual conversation, it is best for beginners to practice the full double-hooking motion to build muscle memory and ensure clarity.

Does it matter which index finger is on top first?

No, it does not matter which hand starts on top for the 'friend' segment. The most important part is that you alternate them, flipping the orientation so the bottom hand moves to the top for the second hook.

Can I use this sign for a female friend I am not dating?

No, this specific compound sign implies a romantic relationship. If you are referring to a platonic female friend, you should simply use the sign for 'friend.' If you must specify gender, sign 'girl' and 'friend' as two distinct, separate concepts.

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