How to Sign "Friendship"

To sign 'friendship,' form both hands into 'X' handshapes by curling your index fingers. Hook your right index finger over your left index finger. Then, unhook them, flip your hands over, and hook your left index finger over your right index finger.

Examples Using "Friendship" in a Sentence

1

Our friendship is very strong.

Begin by signing 'our', moving a cupped hand from your dominant shoulder to your non-dominant shoulder in a smooth arc. Next, sign 'friendship' by hooking your index fingers together twice. Finally, emphasize the sentence by signing 'strong', pulling both fists down firmly to show strength.

2

I value your friendship.

Start by pointing to yourself to sign 'I', then use the sign for 'cherish' or 'value' to show appreciation. Next, point directly to the person you are conversing with for 'your', and conclude the thought by performing the alternating hooked index fingers to sign 'friendship'.

3

Friendship is important to me.

Establish the topic by starting your sentence with the sign for 'friendship', using the interlocking 'X' handshapes. Then, sign 'important' by bringing both 'F' handshapes up in a sweeping circular motion until they meet, and finish the statement by pointing to your chest for 'me'.

How to Sign "Friendship"
To sign 'friendship,' form both hands into 'X' handshapes by curling your index fingers. Hook your right index finger over your left index finger. Then, unhook them, flip your hands over, and hook your left index finger over your right index finger.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This sign is highly iconic and beautifully visual, representing two individuals coming together to form a strong, interlocking bond. The hooked index fingers symbolize two people linking up and holding onto each other. The alternating motion—where one finger rests on top, and then the other—perfectly illustrates the mutual support, equality, and give-and-take that are essential to any lasting friendship. It visually demonstrates that both sides contribute equally to the relationship.
Signing Tips
Keep your movements smooth and relaxed as you transition between the two hooks. The 'X' handshapes shouldn't be too rigid; a gentle, natural curve of the index fingers is perfect. Make sure the flipping motion between the two hooks is fluid rather than robotic. This smooth, alternating movement beautifully represents the reciprocal, give-and-take nature of a strong relationship. Practice the flip until it feels like one continuous, comfortable motion.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake beginners make is hooking the fingers only once, which can look like an incomplete sign or be confused with other signs. Another frequent error is keeping the same hand on top both times instead of alternating which index finger hooks over the other. Make sure to clearly flip your hands so that both fingers get a turn on top, showing the mutual connection. Also, avoid pulling your hands too far apart during the flip.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Friendship" in a Sentence
1

Our friendship is very strong.

Begin by signing 'our', moving a cupped hand from your dominant shoulder to your non-dominant shoulder in a smooth arc. Next, sign 'friendship' by hooking your index fingers together twice. Finally, emphasize the sentence by signing 'strong', pulling both fists down firmly to show strength.

2

I value your friendship.

Start by pointing to yourself to sign 'I', then use the sign for 'cherish' or 'value' to show appreciation. Next, point directly to the person you are conversing with for 'your', and conclude the thought by performing the alternating hooked index fingers to sign 'friendship'.

3

Friendship is important to me.

Establish the topic by starting your sentence with the sign for 'friendship', using the interlocking 'X' handshapes. Then, sign 'important' by bringing both 'F' handshapes up in a sweeping circular motion until they meet, and finish the statement by pointing to your chest for 'me'.

Frequently Asked Questions
Is the sign for 'friendship' the same as 'friend'?

Yes, in most everyday contexts, the sign for 'friend' and the concept of 'friendship' use the exact same alternating hook motion. Occasionally, to emphasize the abstract, long-lasting concept of 'friendship,' signers might hold the interlocking fingers slightly longer or pull them gently toward the body, but the core movement remains identical.

Does it matter which hand is on top first?

Typically, your dominant hand starts on top for the first hook, and then your non-dominant hand takes the top position for the second hook. While this is the standard and most natural way to sign it, it is a very forgiving sign, and native signers will easily understand you either way.

Can I use this sign for 'best friend'?

While you can use this standard sign to talk about a good friend, 'best friend' actually has its own unique sign! To sign 'best friend,' you typically use the 'R' handshape (crossing your index and middle fingers) and pull it firmly toward your chest to show a much tighter, closer bond.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!