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How to Sign "Do You Want To Have Sex"

To ask 'do you want to have sex?' in ASL, you will combine the signs for SEX, WANT, and YOU. First, form an 'X' handshape with your dominant hand and tap it against your upper cheek to sign SEX. Next, sign WANT by extending both hands forward with palms facing up and fingers slightly curved, then pulling them toward your torso. Finish by pointing your dominant index finger directly at the person to sign YOU. Make sure to keep your eyebrows raised throughout the entire phrase to indicate a yes/no question.

Examples Using "Do You Want To Have Sex" in a Sentence

1

Do you want to have sex tonight?

Sign TONIGHT, followed by the sequence SEX, WANT, YOU. Remember to keep your eyebrows raised to show it is a question.

2

I asked my partner, 'do you want to have sex?'

Sign MY PARTNER, I ASK, then shift your body slightly and sign SEX, WANT, YOU with raised eyebrows to quote the question.

3

If you want to have sex later, let me know.

Sign LATER, SEX WANT YOU with raised eyebrows for the 'if' condition, then return to a neutral expression and sign LET-ME-KNOW.

How to Sign "Do You Want To Have Sex"
To ask 'do you want to have sex?' in ASL, you will combine the signs for SEX, WANT, and YOU. First, form an 'X' handshape with your dominant hand and tap it against your upper cheek to sign SEX. Next, sign WANT by extending both hands forward with palms facing up and fingers slightly curved, then pulling them toward your torso. Finish by pointing your dominant index finger directly at the person to sign YOU. Make sure to keep your eyebrows raised throughout the entire phrase to indicate a yes/no question.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This phrase combines three highly motivated signs. The sign for SEX uses an initialized 'X' handshape near the face. The sign for WANT is iconic, visually representing the action of grabbing something you desire and pulling it toward yourself. Finally, YOU is a natural, directional pointing gesture.
Signing Tips
When asking this question, the most important element is your facial expression. Keep your eyebrows raised and maintain eye contact to clearly signal a yes/no question. Ensure your 'X' handshape for SEX taps the upper cheek, as tapping lower on the face can be confused with other signs like APPLE.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is forgetting the facial grammar. If you sign this phrase with a neutral expression, it translates as a statement ('You want to have sex') rather than a question. Additionally, beginners sometimes sign WANT with their palms facing down instead of up, which is incorrect.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Do You Want To Have Sex" in a Sentence
1

Do you want to have sex tonight?

Sign TONIGHT, followed by the sequence SEX, WANT, YOU. Remember to keep your eyebrows raised to show it is a question.

2

I asked my partner, 'do you want to have sex?'

Sign MY PARTNER, I ASK, then shift your body slightly and sign SEX, WANT, YOU with raised eyebrows to quote the question.

3

If you want to have sex later, let me know.

Sign LATER, SEX WANT YOU with raised eyebrows for the 'if' condition, then return to a neutral expression and sign LET-ME-KNOW.

Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to sign the words 'do' or 'have'?

No, ASL translates the meaning rather than word-for-word English. The concepts of 'do' and 'have' are naturally implied by the signs SEX, WANT, and YOU, combined with the raised eyebrows for the question.

Why do I have to raise my eyebrows?

In ASL, facial expressions act as grammar. Raising your eyebrows is the required non-manual marker for any yes/no question. Without it, the phrase becomes a statement instead of a question.

Can I sign 'YOU WANT SEX' instead?

Yes! ASL has flexible word order. While this specific video demonstrates 'SEX WANT YOU', signing 'YOU WANT SEX' is also grammatically correct and widely used, provided your eyebrows remain raised.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!