How to Sign "Calm Down"

To sign 'calm down', start with both hands in front of your chest, palms facing down and fingers spread apart. Gently push both hands downward in a smooth, steady motion. Your facial expression should match the meaning, looking reassuring and relaxed.

Examples Using "Calm Down" in a Sentence

1

You need to calm down.

When signing this, you can emphasize the downward motion slightly to show that the person really needs to relax, pairing it with a direct but reassuring look.

2

I took a deep breath to calm down.

Sign 'breathe' and then 'calm down', using a very smooth and gentle downward motion to reflect your own settling energy.

3

The baby finally calmed down.

You can sign 'baby' and then 'calm down', keeping the movement soft and peaceful to reflect the baby settling into a relaxed state.

How to Sign "Calm Down"
To sign 'calm down', start with both hands in front of your chest, palms facing down and fingers spread apart. Gently push both hands downward in a smooth, steady motion. Your facial expression should match the meaning, looking reassuring and relaxed.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
This sign is highly iconic, visually representing the physical action of pushing energy or tension downward to settle it. The open, downward-facing palms suggest smoothing things out and bringing the overall energy level down.
Signing Tips
Focus on the smoothness of the motion. Keep your shoulders relaxed and let your facial expression show reassurance and peace. The speed of your hands should reflect the calming nature of the word.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is moving the hands too quickly or forcefully, which can look aggressive or demanding rather than calming. Another mistake is forgetting to use a relaxed facial expression; if you look tense while signing 'calm down', your message will be confusing.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Calm Down" in a Sentence
1

You need to calm down.

When signing this, you can emphasize the downward motion slightly to show that the person really needs to relax, pairing it with a direct but reassuring look.

2

I took a deep breath to calm down.

Sign 'breathe' and then 'calm down', using a very smooth and gentle downward motion to reflect your own settling energy.

3

The baby finally calmed down.

You can sign 'baby' and then 'calm down', keeping the movement soft and peaceful to reflect the baby settling into a relaxed state.

Frequently Asked Questions
Is this sign the same as 'relax'?

Yes, this sign is often used interchangeably with 'relax'. The context of your sentence and your facial expression will clarify whether you are telling someone to 'calm down' or simply talking about 'relaxing'.

Can I use just one hand for this sign?

While it's possible to use one hand in very casual, fast-paced conversation, using both hands is standard and makes the sign much clearer, especially when you want to emphasize the need to settle down.

How do I make the sign stronger if someone is very upset?

To show a stronger need to calm down, you can make the downward motion slightly more deliberate and pair it with a firmer, more serious facial expression, maintaining eye contact.

ASL is a beautiful, expressive language. Practice regularly and have fun!