How to Sign "Bother"
To sign 'bother', start by holding your non-dominant hand in front of you with a flat handshape, palm facing sideways and thumb pointing up. Take your dominant hand, also in a flat handshape, and tap the pinky-side edge of it into the crease between the thumb and index finger of your non-dominant hand. Repeat this chopping motion twice while showing an annoyed or bothered facial expression.
Visual Logic(Etymology)
The sign for 'bother' visually represents an interruption or interference. The dominant hand repeatedly chopping into the non-dominant hand mimics the idea of something repeatedly getting in the way, breaking your focus, or causing an irritating disruption.
Signing Tips
Facial expressions are crucial for this sign! Since 'bother' conveys annoyance or interruption, make sure your face matches the feeling. Squint your eyes slightly or furrow your brow to show that something is irritating. Keep your wrists relaxed but your handshapes firm so the tapping motion is clear.
Common Mistakes
A common mistake is clapping the hands together flatly instead of tapping the edge of the dominant hand into the thumb crease of the non-dominant hand. Another mistake is forgetting the facial expression; signing 'bother' with a blank or happy face will confuse the person you are signing with.
Regional Variations
This sign is widely used and understood across the ASL community with minimal regional variation.
Examples Using "Bother" in a Sentence
1Sorry to bother you.
Sign 'sorry' by rubbing an 'A' handshape in a circle on your chest, then sign 'bother' directing the motion slightly toward the person you are speaking to.
2Stop bothering me!
Sign 'stop' with a firm chop of your hand, then sign 'bother' with a strong, sharp movement and an intense, frustrated facial expression.
3Does the noise bother you?
Point to your ear to indicate 'noise', sign 'bother', and raise your eyebrows at the end of the sentence to indicate a yes/no question.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is 'bother' the same sign as 'interrupt'?
They are very similar and use the exact same handshapes! 'Interrupt' is usually a single, sharp chop to show a sudden break, while 'bother' typically uses a repeated tapping motion to show ongoing annoyance.
Can I use this sign to mean 'annoy'?
Yes, 'bother' and 'annoy' are often signed the exact same way. The intensity of your facial expression and the sharpness of the movement will show just how annoyed or bothered you are.
Does it matter which hand I use to chop?
You should always use your dominant hand to do the moving or chopping, while your non-dominant hand stays still as the base. If you are right-handed, your right hand will chop into your left hand.
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